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Dear Neighbors (the ones in our neighborhood):
You know what I said yesterday about how much I hate you for leaving fireworks shit all over the yard? I take that back. I’ll happily put up with the fireworks shit, since you’re nice enough to get your fireworkin’ done at a decent hour. If you could arrange for a painful accident to happen to the assholes in that other subdivision, that’d be great, m’kay?
As ever,
Robyn
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Dear readers:
Okay, I’ll shut the fuck up about the fireworkin’ mofos in our neighborhood and surrounding neighborhoods. At least ’til next year! Ha!
As ever,
Robyn
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I know you guys like to try to figure out this sort of thing, so I thought I’d ask for help. Reader LC is trying to find out the name of a book she read back in the early ’90s. It doesn’t sound familiar to me, but maybe one of you know the book she’s reading about. Here’s her description:
What I can remember is this. I found this book in a public library in the the early 1980s, so the chance of it being a Harlequin or Silhouette romance is slim to none. The library I went to didn’t carry those. It was a hard cover book, I remember checking it out with a Gail Godwin and a Susan Issacs, so I am thinking the author was in the F-G-H-I area of the fiction area.
The main female character is a woman who was either an abandoned wife or divorced (same thing, I guess,) with a couple of small children. The story takes place in contemporary California. I remember this because one of the things she does is take her children to Taco Bell, which we didn’t have in in the area of Phoenix I lived in then.
She meets a male hairdresser. She thinks he gay. He helps her out, they become friends. Her friends are appalled. He’s helping her make curtains for her apartment and she learns PDQ that he’s quite straight. They end up being a couple and living happily every after.
I know it sounds cheesy as hell, but the book made such an impression I am still thinking about it 20 years later. It could also be I am not remembering the quality of the book well, but I’d like to find it and re-read it.
I’ve asked my other romance-readin’ friends if they had ever heard of it, and all they can say is “He’s not bisexual?”
Anyone know what it might be? Leave a comment or email me!
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Fred bought some honey maple Boar’s Head ham at the deli of our grocery store on Saturday and OH. MY. GOD. that is some fine, fine stuff. Between the two of us we ate almost a pound of it over the weekend (Fred had a ham sandwich for breakfast yesterday, even), and I had to buy some more when I went yesterday so I’d have something quick and easy for lunches this week.
(I’m all about the quick and easy, wink-wink-nudge-nudge-har-har.)
I also wanted to pick up a box of
Children’s Benadryl Fastmelt because I read about them somewhere over the weekend, and I realized a few weeks ago that I’ve been taking an adult dose of Benadryl on Mondays before I go to the petstore, and it makes me drowsy and lethargic (“How do you know the difference from how you USUALLY feel, Robyn? Ha! Ha!”) and kind of blue all day long. So I thought I’d go with a dose actually intended for children, and so I turned down that particular aisle to look for the stuff, and what did I find? Why, that all the Benadryl was in a locked case, and there was an article taped to the front of the case stating that as of a particular date (can you tell I skimmed?), products that contain pseudoephedrine and ephedrine will be kept in a locked case and sales will be limited to two packages at a time, because pseudoephedrine and ephedrine are used to make meth.
But then, interestingly, after I looked around some more I found a selection of Benadryl out in the open, and I located a box of Children’s Benadryl Fastmelts, so I put them in my cart and was on my way.
And then? When I was checking out? I started feeling guilty as if, perhaps, I was intending to use the box of Children’s Benadryl to GO HOME AND MAKE METH.
I’m such a freak.
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You know, originally we were supposed to go to Florida this weekend, but we canceled the trip because we didn’t want to spend the money, but mostly because I didn’t want to have to find someone to cover for me yesterday morning at the pet store. So I said to myself “Self, I better find something to keep me occupied, or it’s going to be a long, boring-ass summer!”, and that’s when the opportunity to foster Mia and the babies came along and I took it.
All in all, I had a better time this weekend snuggling baby kittens than I would have had spending 10 – 12 hours in the car driving to and from Florida and listening to Fred bitch about the traffic.
Except, that is, for the two hours we spent in the Emergency Vet Clinic yesterday, and the fact that Mia doesn’t seem to be doing very well.
She was okay, if a little agitated by the fireworks, Sunday night. Fred spent a little time with her before bed, and she seemed okay, if a little less inclined to purr. When he went in yesterday morning – I think I mentioned this in yesterday’s entry – there were several small puddles of what appeared to be nothing but bile. She was lethargic, and was clearly not feeling well – cats get a certain look around their eyes when they aren’t feeling well – so we gave her a dose of the anti-emetic we have, and Fred coaxed her to drink some water, and she let him pet her for a while, and we decided to check on her every now and then to see how she was doing.
When I went into her room at 12:30ish, she was laying under the spud’s desk and she looked at me, but didn’t come out to be petted, didn’t meow at me, just lay there and looked at me. Finally she came out, and her legs seemed a little shaky. She let me pet her for a few minutes, then moved away from me and settled down to sleep. I called Fred (who was off on a hike) to tell him how she was, and we thought that maybe the anti-emetic was making her sleepy.
I went off and took my shower, checked on the (extremely rambunctious) kittens, then came downstairs to check my email and all that good stuff. Fred got home from his hike a few minutes later and we ate lunch, then he went upstairs to check on Mia and take a nap. He came right back down to tell me that he’d tried to get her to come to him, and she took one very shaky step, but couldn’t go any further.
I sent him back upstairs to box her up, and tried calling the lady who runs the shelter to let her know what was going on. I couldn’t get ahold of her, so I left a message letting her know that we were taking Mia to the emergency clinic – and thank GOD we live near a city where there’s an emergency clinic – and we left the house.
Luckily, due to the holiday, the traffic was pretty light and we got to the emergency clinic quickly. We sat in the waiting room for a little while, and the lady who runs the shelter called to find out what was going on, and then they took us back to the exam room.
To cut a long story short (too late!) they did all sorts of tests on her, and found that she had a great deal of blood in her urine. Her blood tests came back showing that her BUN, Creatine, and Phosphorus levels were very high which, the vet told us, indicated that there was a toxin in her blood, and her kidneys weren’t clearing it out of her system. After a bunch of questions from Fred, he admitted that he didn’t know exactly what was going on, told us that they were going to give her IV fluids and a shot of antibiotics and an anti-emetic, and that she needed to see her regular vet.
We brought her home and for a few minutes she seemed a lot better; she hopped out of the carrier when Fred opened it, and she purred and rubbed on him. Then she flopped down on one of the cat beds, and Fred checked on her every so often through the night, but she apparently didn’t move at all during the night. He checked on her this morning, and she was still in the bed, and when I went into her room she was still there. She had clearly not had anything to eat or drink, and she didn’t use the litter box. I boxed her up and drove her to Ardmore, to the vet that the shelter uses.
She didn’t meow once the entire way.
The vet looked her over – Mia could barely summon up a halfhearted growl as she was being examined – and basically told me that the fact that Mia hadn’t used the litter box overnight after having IV fluids was worrisome, because when a cat’s kidneys start to go into renal failure they urinate a lot, but when they don’t urinate at all, that could indicate end-stage renal failure.
Everyone asked if there was anything she could have gotten into, something toxic that could be making her so sick, and we’ve been wracking our brains, but there’s just nothing. She spent the first several weeks in the guest bedroom with the kittens, and there’s nothing in there except cat toys, cat beds, and towels to sleep on. I went over the study – where we put her after we separated her from the kittens – with a fine-tooth comb, and there’s nothing at all that could be dangerous to her, nothing. I mean, all our cats used to hang out in that room, and of course we’re very careful not to leave anything around that could harm them, so it’s driving us crazy.
I don’t know, y’all. It doesn’t seem like it’s looking very good for Mia. They’re keeping her at the vet’s for now, and I’m not sure how they’re going to treat her; Fred’s going to call and check on her this afternoon. If you can spare a prayer or a good thought aimed at a sweet little gray and white spitfire who’s in Ardmore, Alabama right now, I’d appreciate it.
Edited to add: Fred just talked to the vet, who said that there’s nothing they can do for Mia. They’re going to put her down.
The vet believes that Mia may have gotten into antifreeze when she was living at the auto parts store, before she had her babies. Antifreeze can apparently take a while to build up in their system and make them sick. Poor Mia.
I know that we took good care of her and she was happy here for a while and it helps to know that, but this just really, really sucks.
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The kitten pictures.
Peanut’s ready to begin his lucrative boxing career.
“I see you, paw. Don’t try anything funny, or I’ll kick your ass…”
Oy, chewing on a toy. Or trying to, at least, if he could just get hold of it…
“The wimmins like it when I sit like this.”
“I like to sniff Snoopy’s tail. It tells me where he’s been.”
“Pbblllt. Why does my paw taste like kitty litter?”
“Heeeey, macarena!”
You cannot resist the cuteness.
Oy poses prettily.
“I like to smell my foot. Is that weird?”
Tellin’ secrets. Or, brotherly love.
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Miz Poo is outside and wants to come in, but every time she heads for the cat door, Mister Boogers runs over and won’t let her come in. Because he’s a mean little bastard.
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2004: If you set off fireworks for three hours straight, starting at 7:30, you are not only an asshole, you live near me.
2003: No entry.
2002: A bunch of links that are probably no longer good.
2001: Pictures from Maine.
2000: Unfortunately, I forgot that when I say things like “Let’s go skinny-dipping and watch the fireworks”, what I actually mean is “Let’s go skinny-dipping and watch the fireworks”, but he hears “Let’s go swimming naked and get frisky in the pool under the fireworks.”]]>
I am saying a prayer for Mia. I will watch for updates.
Poor Mia. Sending positive kitty vibes in her direction.
Sorry about your asshole neighbors..normally we have that same problem around here, but it was tame last night.
Poor Mia…I agree it doesn’t sound good for her, but I will pray for her anyway. It’s so unfair when pets get sick. 🙁
Saying a prayer for Mia. 🙁
That picture of Oy sitting all poised is so sweet! If I get a picture of my cats sitting like that, I call it their class picture. 😛
Poor Mia. Healing thoughts sent her way. I hope she’s okay.
Feel better, Mia!!!
Keeping Mia in my thoughts and prayers.
Fred just talked to the vet, who said that there’s nothing they can do for Mia. They’re going to put her down.
The vet believes that Mia may have gotten into antifreeze when she was living at the auto parts store, before she had her babies. Antifreeze can apparently take a while to build up in their system and make them sick. Poor Mia.
I know that we took good care of her and she was happy here for a while and it helps to know that, but this just really, really sucks.
Poor Mia. It sounds like she wanted to make sure her babies were okay first. What a sweet kitty.
“The wimmins…” cracked me up.
Wow.
Just…wow.
Sitting here at work wiping the tears away…
I am SO sorry to hear this.
=o(
Sorry, Robyn. sending my heartfelt hugs your way!
I am sorry to hear about Mia 🙁
I’m just glad that you let her go back into the rooms with the kittens. This is so sad….
I have tears running down my face. Poor momma cat! I really hate that this happened:(
I am so sorry to hear about Mia. I lost one of my cats to kidney failure so I know how worrying and upsetting it is.
It’s so sad that she waited until her kittens didn’t need her anymore before getting really ill. Cats are often such good mothers.
My thoughts are with you – at least you know you did your very best.
I’m so so sorry about Mia. Poor momma. 🙁
Yesterday must have been a good day for emergency visits to the vet as I was there as well with my Wheezie. The vet, bless him, opened up the office just for us. (He charges you for it but I don’t begrudge him one penny of it. I felt so badly for him not getting the holiday off.)
I’m sorry about Mia. 🙁 You helped make her last days good ones.
I’m so sorry about Mia, Robyn. Your entries about them have not only been a joy to me, but my 10 year old daughter as well. We’ve both been entranced with them through their stay with you. Your pictures and movies of Mia and the kittens have been a guaranteed smile every day since you’ve gotten them.
You made Mia’s last weeks with the kittens as safe and loving as possible. You did a wonderful thing. (hug)
I would have contacted the Madison police department about noise from “firecrackin’ mofos” if they continued after 10PM. That’s when I draw a line in the sand for disturbing the peace — holidays notwithstanding.
Sorry about Mia. Did the vet who just performed surgery on her do any pre-op tests, and if so, how was Mia’s condition missed? Just asking……
I’m glad the kitties now are “beyond” constant nursing.
Robyn,
I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. At least the last few weeks of her life were wonderful. I just know you guys took excellent care of her and made her really happy.
Aloha,
Florence
I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. What a good little mommy. She gave those kitties a good start in life.
So sad.. I’ll say a little kitty prayer for her. She did a good job with the babies. They’ll have wonderful lives because of her.
I want to go home and hug my kitty
I just finished watching The Notebook and then read about Mia…so I guess I’ll be weepy all afternoon. Ever so sorry, Robyn.
Well, shoot. I’m so sorry about Mia. You did give her a happy, loving home.
Poor Mia. I’m sorry to hear this. She didn’t have a long enough life, but at least she had a happy one for the last while.
*sigh* That is so very sad about Mia. One thing for sure she did have a wonderful time raising her kittens with you and Fred.
It does suck though. 🙁
I am so sorry! poor Momma kitty.
You gave Mia the 2 best months of her life. She was happy at Casa And3rson. Hugs to the babies and to the humans in the house.
A lot of people say that they can’t own pets because they can’t handle the grief when they die. BULL I say. You did good things for Mia and her babies. If you had known going into this that Mia wasn’t going to survive you STILL would have done it. You are good people.
Robyn, I’m sorry to hear about Mia…..
I’m so sorry for your loss. Mia was a good mommy cat, and knew her babies would be safe with you. She’s gone to heaven, lying in the sun, with Tubby beside her, looking down at you with love.
Poor Mia. I’m sad. It’s amazing what can happen so fast. At least the babies are ok.
Val
I’m so sad to hear about Mia. You and Fred gave her a lot of love, though, and I know she appreciated that.
Robyn, I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. I had to put my Lucy down – she was orange, and I got her because you made me realize how much I too love the orange kitties! – just last Thursday. She wasn’t even a year old yet. I’m just glad Mia got to be Mama to her babies, and that you and Fred let her see them one last time. Maybe in some way she knew. You two are great for giving them all such a wonderful home! (I wonder, are the kittens at risk also?)
Aah, Robyn. I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. It made me wonder, though, if the possibility of antifreeze in her system would account for her aggressive and slightly anti-social behavior? You did say that you were afraid of her a bit.
Well, like other readers have already said, you did a good thing, taking in Mia and her kittens. At least she was happy, safe, and comfortable in her last weeks.
Robyn and Fred so sorry about Mia. I am sure you are terribly sad about it being the animal lovers that you are. You’ve done a great job with the kittens..my thoughts to you.
I am so sorry to hear about Mia. I agree, at least she had good last days and got to see the babies one last time. How did they know it was antifreeze? Poor Mia…at least she is out of pain now…and the kittens are well taken care of 🙂
Shedding tears here in DC. You did a good thing. Love to the kittens.
I thought you just took her in to have her fixed…isn’t there something that could have happend then to her? If it had been a boy cat I wouldn’t be surprised by what happend with the toxins in the blood, but for a female to have those problems is very rare…I think I would ask what might have happened while the cat was out of your care being fixed….sounds kind of suspect to me….sorry that little miss Mia is gone, but as stated above you took really good care of her and her babies are in very good hands and she lives on in them…sorry for your loss….
Oh no – poor Mia!!! & poor you guys! You have to know how much you greatly improved her quality of life and even if it was short, I think it’s very important that for once in her life she had a home and was loved. I’m so very sad and sorry for you & Fred.
What’s going on with Miz Poo and her sore?
I can’t read sad animal stuff so I skimmed the story, this is just terrible. I can’t say anything that hasn’t already been said so I’ll shut it now.
So sorry that happened to Mia. You guys gave her care and attention, and that’s more than a lot of people would do for a pregnant homeless kitty. I’m sure she was grateful for all the love you and Fred gave her.
That is awful news. She was such a good momma and has beautiful little kitties! How sad.
God Robyn, I am so sorry about Mia. At least she knew what it was to be in a loving home and be cared for. Your house was most likely heaven to her.
Robin: I’m not sure what tests were performed on Mia before she was spayed – I think they probably only do the test that makes sure they’ll be okay under anesthesia and the one that tests for feline leukemia and HIV.
Janna: I’m so sorry to hear of your loss!
Jennifer: It’s possible; I’m not sure we’ll ever know, though she was never really aggressive without having a reason for it – in other words, when she was trying to protect her kittens, or at the vet’s, where they were trying to do tests on her.
Karen: I’m not sure that they do know for sure – the vet told Fred she thought that’s what it was, and I assume they have specialized tests that can narrow it down.
Donna: I doubt she got into anything at the vet’s – she was only there for the one day, and they didn’t let her roam around, she was kept in a cage the whole time (except when they were operating on her, of course).
Shelly: I’m not sure; Fred’s at the vet’s with her right now. We’ve been giving her oil to help with the front part of her upper lip – which was all swollen, and which we’ve had problems with for a couple of years now – and now the front part of her lips is fine and healthy-looking and pink, and there’s a sore on the side, on both her upper and lower lips. The problem she was having in the front is called a rodent ulcer, and Fred’s read some information that indicated that sometimes – not often, but sometimes – they can become cancerous. You know our Miz Poo – nothing simple can ever be wrong with her!
To the rest of you: Thank you so much for your comments.
awww, I’m so sorry to read about Mia. Poor thing. I’m at least glad she spent her last days with loving people who will take good care of her babies. You’re a great foster family.
I am sorry to hear your sad news. You did a good thing for her though.
I’m so sorry about Mia… know that she was blessed by having you guys come into her life.
Oh man, the other day when you posted the story about separating them and then the pics with them looking out the window etc.. GOT ME and then your note at the end today……
(Damn it where is the freaking Kleenex) SOB!!
So sorry Robyn, I know we would of all liked a happier ending for Mia. 🙁
I’m so sorry about Mia. How terribly heartbreaking! How nice that she had the experience of being loved, though.
No one could have given her a better home in the end of it all.
She will surely be missed by all of us devoted readers.
*sniffle* poor Mia. thats too bad. ya know, maybe she knew she wasn’t going to make it much longer cause of her making such a fuss over seeing her babies. *sigh* I really hate to hear when an animal hasta be put down 🙁 and you guys were so nice to take care of her and her babies! so sorry to read about her.
oh yeah. and I hope Miz Poo gets better too!!
I’m so sorry about poor Mia 🙁 She was a good momma and had a good life in your home. At least you were able to give her a loving environment to spend the last few months of her life in.
I’ll keep Miz Poo in my thoughts! I hope that lip gets better soon.
I am so sorry..poor kitty mama.That’s so sad.I sure hope the kittens couldn’t be affected from it.Did the vet say? ((hugs))
So sorry to hear about Mia. You and Fred did everything you could do. Like others have said, you made the last few months of her life happy ones with her kittens. Also keeping good thoughts for Miz Poo.
Robyn, Fred, and Spud –
I am so sorry to hear about Mia. I feel like she’s been a part of my kitty family as I’ve read your journal and enjoyed your pics and captions. She was a good mama cat and I’m glad she got to spend the last couple of months in such a loving environment.
Is there any possibility that she could have passed any toxins on to the babies through her milk?? (don’t mean to cause alarm, but something to maybe ask the vet?) I hope and pray that it’s NOT possible!
*Sending you a great big hug!*
Shannon & Angie: The vet didn’t say – I’d think she’d mention that if it was a possibility – but I think I’ll make Fred call and ask her tomorrow. They certainly appear to be the picture of bouncing, running, chasing, tumbling health tonight, though!
so so sorry to hear about mia. 🙁 thank God she had your family to make her days comfortable with the kitties…
Poor Mia- I’m amazed she was well enough to have her babies and take care of them. Big hugs to you and Fred for taking care of her and the babies. I was always thinking it would be hard to say goodbye to Mia and the babies, but I hate that Mia’s goodbye was like this.
When the hell will they start making anti-freeze that isn’t like candy to animals? There ought to be a law.
I am SO sorry to learn of Mia’s death:(
Oh Robyn I am so sorry to hear of Mia’s passing. Lots of hugs to you, Fred and the Spud. I’m glad she had a few great days with you all.
My thoughts are sure with you. I had to tell my husband what happened, as he’s been enjoying the pics and movies. He also sends his prayers to you.
Bless your hearts for the love you gave Mia and give every day to all of the cats and kittens!
I am so so sorry to hear about Mia — I hope you guys are doing okay! You took such good care of her & the babies. Take care.
I read this earlier before you edited it, and came back after reading Jane’s entry. I am soooo sorry Robyn! You gave her the best, most caring last few weeks of life she could ask for, and she left behind beautiful babies for other people to love and remember her by. I can’t imagine how you must feel right now, but always remember our thoughts are with you. You have a huge heart and it doesn’t go unnoticed.
Hey Robyn, I’m sorry to hear about Mia. I can’t help wondering if she might have gotten some kind of infection from being spayed? I am glad that you were able to offer her a loving home for two months anyway. You’re a very kind person.
{{{hugs}}} You and Fred are angels to have helped Mia in her short life. Our thoughts (me and my little girl) are with you guys tonight. It was just the right thing to do, to let her visit with her kittens for one last time. Please give all the babies extra cuddles and hairchews in the next few days, especially Snoopy.
I’m sorry to hear about Mia, Robyn. The most we can do for these cats is to rescue them, take the best care of them that we can, make sure their babies (if they have any) survive and go to good homes. You did a spectacular job with both Mia and her babies. If there weren’t rescue and foster programs, Mia and those babies wouldn’t have survived or if they did, they wouldn’t have had such a carefree life. I’m sorry.
Aw poor Mia,god bless ya.
Thanks And3rsons for taking such good care of her.
🙁
Poor Mia..
I’m so sorry Robyn!
I am so sorry to hear about Mia. At least she had enough time left to make sure her babies were in good hands. Hugs.
So very sorry to learn of Mia’s passing. You and she made it possible for the babies to be healthy and happy. They would not have any of the good life without your family. Mia did all she could, and when she was done, she let go. Hugs to all of you.
I’m so sorry!!
Oh, Robyn, I’m so sorry you lost your furry friend.
Gosh Robyn. I am so sorry to hear about Mia, but it is true, she couldn’t have asked for a better home her last couple of months. My thoughts are with you and Fred!
I know I’m not saying anything new, but I do believe Mia died a happy mama kitty. Her babies are safe and healthy, and she can rest easy. I’m so sorry for you & Fred. :o(
I can’t tell you how sorry I am to hear about darling Mia. I hope she didn’t suffer, & I’m so glad she had the chance to wean her sweet babies. She & the kittens have found a place in my heart these past few weeks, & she will be missed. God bless you & Fred for all you have done for them.
I’m so sorry to hear of Mia’s death. I’m just glad she had the chance to live in a place where she was loved and her kittens would be loved.
I think Mia would have thanked you if she could for letting her have a safe, clean place to raise her kittens. Poor Mia, when I think of how sick she must have been but yet nursed her kittens and cared for them as long as she could it makes me want to cry. She was a good little momma.
Sending good vibes your way…I know you must be sad but you and Fred take excellent care of all your pets and you certainly did everything you could for Mia.
I’m so sorry about Mia! My dog is going through the same thing, kidney failure and is not expected to live much longer. It’s so hard! Thank you for caring for her and her babies. There are not enough people like you and Fred in the world!
We had to have one of our cats put down because of renal failure and it was terrible for us but a blessing for her because she was in so much pain. How wonderful that Mia was there for her kittens when they needed her. Hugs to you and your family for taking this family in when they needed you.
I was so sorry to hear about Mia! Such a tragedy. I would also say to check with the vet to make sure the kittens are not at risk. Keep your chin up hun and remember, we are all here for you… I know it must be tearing you up, but you are trying to be strong. You have been so awsome to Mia and her kittens, take solace in the fact that you have given them a safe, clean home and kept them fed and happy. She may have left this world, but she did so knowing her babies would be well taken care of by someone who adores them!
Here is a poem that I had found when I lost my Sockies… that’s been three years this November and it still tears my heart in two to think about her. Cat’s tend to capture our hearts and keep it in their little grasp. They do not come when called, look at us as if we are stupid, try to trip us… planning our deaths on the steps, give looks that prove they are the superior kind and that we, not they, were God’s mistakes… but they are also Cute, cuddly, they love with all of their being, they tend to be loyal to the one person in the house they latch onto, although they will love all that reside their. The things they do can qualify for more funniest videos prizes than imaginable, and life is more full and interesting with them around.
God Bless and keep Mia and let her find rest!
My Best Friend
(Anonymous)
My best friend closed her eyes last night
as her head lay in my hand.
The doctors said there was pain
And it was hard for her to stand.
The thoughts that scurried through my head
As I cradled her in my arms.
Were of her younger, kitten years,
And oh her many charms.
Today, there was no gentle nudge
With an intense “I Love You” gaze;
Only a heart that’s filled with tears,
Remembering our many joy-filled days.
But an angel just appeared to me and he said,
“You should cry no more.
God also loves our Kitty friends… you see,
He’s installed a Kitty door.”
I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. She was such a good mommy to her babies. She gave them a great start in life. And she was lucky to have such a loving family to care for her and the kittens.
Hugs to the whole Anders0n clan.
And I hope Miz Poo is feeling better soon.
Robyn, I’m so sorry to hear about Mia. You and Fred were so great in caring for her. At least her last days were spent in comfort with loving, caring people and she knows he kittens will be well cared for and loved. Good job Robyn!
I’m so sorry for your loss, I know how much you loved her.
Oh Robyn – I just read about Mia and I can imagine how sad you must be. You and Fred gave her the best possible care and the best possible home in her last weeks though, and most importantly, a loving home for her babies. No one could have done more or made her happier. So sorry, sweetie. Love & hugs to all of you…:(
Sorry about Mia. You took good care of her.
Oh, poor Mia! At least, she was loved by the hundreds of your readers so there will be a special place just for her over at the Rainbow Bridge!
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Poor Mia. But….she’s not suffering anymore.
I lost one of my cats last week….and we think it was anti-freeze also…..from a leak in our truck.
I didn’t realize it could take time and build up in their system! I’ll be watching my others!! (I have 37….all spayed/neuterd…..most are feral.)
You have done and are doing a WONDERFUL thing. Mia knew her job was done….and her beautiful babies would be safe. Without you and Fred, their fate would have been very different.
Hang in there. It isn’t easy. But….they are worth every bit of it!
Oh, Gosh. I’m so sorry. 🙁
Oh, Robyn. I am so sorry to read about Mia. Ditto what everyone else has said. I hope you keep on with the fostering because, even though this is the deep dark, you and Fred are naturals at it.
I’m so sorry Robyn. 🙁
Ohmygosh, how sad! I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m sitting her crying at work (thankfully I just work with The Hubs and no one else ~ the Dog doesn’t count as he’s asleep anyway).
At first I was wondering if by accident she got into your Benedryl. I had a similar thing happen to one of my cats ~ they ran TONS of tests on him, couldn’t figure out what was wrong, basically said there was nothing they could do for him but give him IV fluids and keep him in the vet hospital (which I gladly did to the tune of $2,000 as the end result cost). Then finally, they said “Just take him home and watch him”. He survived and to this day we have NO idea what caused his issues. I always wondered if it was my Benedryl that I take every night (perhaps I dropped one pill accidentally?!?). It can be poisonous to cats. But antifreeze you say, huh? Wow, I never knew it could build up, I just thought it was more of an instant death thing.
Oh and needless to say, I am all “Rain Man” now when I take my pills….”one, two, three….definitely one two three pills in my hand, most definitely ONE TWO THREE pills in my hand! Okay, definitely all there….ONE, TWO, THREE pills *GULP*!
Again, so sorry for your loss and at least Mia had the joy of you and Fred (and the Spud) and her babies before she went.
My heart is broken for the loss of lovely little Mia. You were so wonderful to let her raise her babies in a safe environment, where she had no worries, and I’m glad she got to say good-bye to the babies. Maybe she had done her job “raising” them, and just let the long ago ingested poision get to her? No idea of course, but that is weird. I can’t help but wonder if it had to do with her spay operation.
Poor Mia 🙁 I’m so sorry.
I’m very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in the fact that you made her last days wonderful!